
ABOUT ME
I’m Jemma Jermy—a math-loving, photography-obsessed writer and mother based in Norwich, UK. Here is what you need to know about me.
Welcome to the world, that I want to share with you all.
Originally hailing from the vibrant town of Doncaster (Shhh, if you’ve been there, don’t tell people it’s a lie). I’ve embarked on a mission to inspire and share my experiences with you all.
When I’m not behind my camera capturing life’s beautiful moments, you’ll find me immersed in the magical world of words. Poetry and storytelling are my secret weapons for expressing my soul’s deepest desires. I’m always up for a new challenge—be it scaling walls while bouldering or home-educating my children.
Volunteering is a beautiful thing
For the past five years, I’ve been on a remarkable journey working with a phenomenal breastfeeding charity, Breastfeeding Mum Meets. I am their Co-Chair, marketing designer, and social media manager.
This experience has ignited a fire within me. It led me to further embrace responsive parenting and champion the importance of nature in our children’s lives. It’s time to break free from outdated norms and give our kids the nurturing environment they truly deserve.
Empower the next generation to do better
At the core of everything I do, there’s a burning belief in being present and celebrating authenticity. I believe in protecting our planet’s precious ecosystems. Empowering parents with information, and smashing through generational trauma and those antiquated beliefs that hold us back.
Knowledge is power, my friend, and it helps you make informed decisions and parent like the rockstar you truly are!
Passion is my driving force. Through the written word and captivating visuals, I’m on a mission to transform lives, inspire positive change, and create a world where everyone feels empowered and confident in their choices. I show this through my blogs and designs, empowering, inspiring and being bold.
While I may not have a shiny trophy (yet), my vision for the future is crystal clear: I want to show my children the vast wonders of this world and nurture an environment where they can flourish and embrace their true potential.
So, come on in and join the party! I’m a carefree spirit with a laser focus, and I communicate with a calm confidence that’ll make you feel right at home.
Parenting Style
I am a mother to two incredible children. As a responsive and gentle parent, my goal is to create a nurturing environment where my children can flourish and embrace their individuality. Join me as I share my experiences and insights into the parenting sphere.
From the moment I became a parent, it felt instinctive to follow a different path than the one I experienced growing up. I chose to trust my intuition and nurture my children in a way that aligned with my deepest values and beliefs.
Challenge the norm
While following my parenting style, I’ve encountered many challenges along the way. A big one is dealing with the opinions of others who may not understand or support my choices. Additionally, I’ve found it challenging to unlearn old patterns and resist the temptation to revert to the parenting style I was raised with. Parenting has become a journey of self-growth and reflection, as I learn to parent myself alongside my children.
Recognising the importance of self-care, I make it a priority to carve out child-free time to indulge in my hobbies and passions. These moments rejuvenate me and allow me to approach parenting with a refreshed perspective. I believe that caring for myself enables me to better care for my children.
Slow down and live in the now
Speaking of my children, they have taught me invaluable lessons throughout our journey together. One of the most important lessons has been the power of being present in the moment. Slowing down and seeing the world through their eyes has allowed me to appreciate the wonder in every little thing. Their innocence and curiosity have been a constant reminder to treasure the beauty in life’s simple pleasures.
Empathy and Understanding
I emphasise the importance of setting age-appropriate boundaries. I believe in using natural and logical consequences, and I engage my children in open and respectful discussions to help them understand the impact of their actions. Communication is key in our family. I treat my children as fellow human beings, deserving of empathy, understanding, and constructive conversations, rather than shaming or punitive measures. I am, however, not perfect and when I do slip, I have an open discussion with my children and apologise for my actions.
Allowing my children to explore their interests and cultivate their independence is a crucial aspect of my parenting style. I provide them with the freedom to play by themselves, encouraging creativity and imagination. By fostering their natural curiosity, I witness their growth and self-discovery.
In our family, we’ve established rituals and routines that promote a loving and harmonious environment. Our evenings end with a GLAD talk, where we express gratitude, and share what we’ve learned and achieved, and what has delighted us. It is then followed by a discussion on any mistakes and negative emotions that may have happened in the day, allowing for a space to normalise these feelings. We also prioritise screen-free time, allowing us to bond, play, and learn together.
Learning is a lifelong pursuit
As advocates of home education, we believe that learning should never feel like work. Instead, it should be a joyful journey where children explore their passions and interests at their own pace. Every child is an individual and learning should never be a competition. Children want to learn; we just need to facilitate that learning.
Gratitude and empathy are essential values we instil in our children. We encourage them to appreciate the beauty in their lives and to resolve conflicts by understanding and learning from their experiences. Empty apologies are replaced with meaningful conversations that teach them the importance of resolving issues and growing from them.
Above all else, I aspire for my children to become loving, respectful individuals who embrace their unique identities. I want them to know that they have the power to create their own future and be in control of their destiny. By nurturing their individuality, I hope to raise confident and compassionate individuals who positively impact the world around them.
By breaking generational patterns and embracing a responsive and loving approach, we can create a nurturing environment where our children thrive. Let’s celebrate their uniqueness and empower them to embrace their true selves. Together, we can create a brighter future for the next generation.
Instead of preparing your children for a bad world, give them the skills to make it better!!!
Breastfeeding Journey
A proud mother who has embraced the beautiful and fulfilling experience of breastfeeding. Throughout my journey, I have nourished and nurtured my children with love, providing them with the best start in life. Join me as I share my personal insights, triumphs, and the joy that breastfeeding has brought to my life.
When it came to feeding my children, I knew that breastfeeding was the right choice for us. Beyond the practical reasons, such as the convenience and availability of breast milk, my decision was deeply rooted in the belief that breast milk is specifically designed to meet my child’s needs. It felt like the most natural way to provide nourishment and build a strong foundation for their growth and development.
Not all journeys are the same
Fortunately, my breastfeeding journeys have been relatively easy. I didn’t encounter any major challenges or difficulties in the early days. From the moment my children latched on, a beautiful connection was established, and breastfeeding became a harmonious experience for both of us. There have been moments where it has been too much, but we got through them.
Support has played a vital role in my breastfeeding success. I’ve been fortunate to receive support from health visitors, as well as the unwavering encouragement of my family and friends. Their guidance and reassurance have instilled confidence in me and reinforced my commitment to breastfeeding.
While I haven’t faced significant societal or cultural pressures, there were a few individuals who didn’t fully understand the benefits and significance of breastfeeding. However, my unwavering belief in the power of breastfeeding and the knowledge that I was doing what was best for my children helped me navigate these challenges with ease and grace.
My breastfeeding journey has been filled with countless rewarding moments. The contented look and smiles on my children’s faces while they nurse serve as a constant reminder of the deep bond we share. These intimate moments of connection and the sheer joy they bring have created lasting memories that I will cherish forever.
Bonding with baby
Breastfeeding has been an incredible tool for strengthening the bond between me and my children. Through the act of breastfeeding, we have established trust, security, and an unbreakable love. The close physical contact and responsive nature of breastfeeding have nurtured a deep connection, creating a foundation of emotional closeness that extends far beyond infancy.
I have been fortunate not to face judgment or criticism while breastfeeding in public. However, I understand that many mothers may encounter such challenges. To those facing these situations, my advice is to stay confident and advocate for your right to breastfeed. Normalise breastfeeding by being unapologetic and educating others about its benefits.
Breastfeeding has played a significant role in my postpartum recovery and self-care journey. It has provided me with moments of tranquillity, allowing me to slow down and embrace the beauty of the present moment. The oxytocin released during breastfeeding has promoted relaxation and a sense of calm, enhancing my overall well-being.
When in doubt
One of the beauties of breastfeeding is its simplicity and convenience. Being able to “whip out a boob,” as they say, has made it easier to incorporate breastfeeding into my daily routine. Whether at home or out and about, breastfeeding seamlessly integrates into the fabric of my life, providing nourishment and comfort whenever my child needs it.
To all the mothers considering or currently breastfeeding, I want to offer words of encouragement. Breastfeeding is not always easy, but with the right support and accurate information, you can embark on the breastfeeding journey you desire. Trust your instincts, seek guidance when needed, and remember that you are providing your child with a gift that will last a lifetime.
My breastfeeding journey has been a testament to the power of nurturing and love. It has been a deeply rewarding experience that has strengthened the bond with my children and provided them with the nourishment they need to thrive. Breastfeeding has allowed me to embrace the beauty of motherhood and provide my children with a foundation of love, care, and security. I hope that my story inspires and encourages other mothers to embark on their own empowering breastfeeding journeys. Together, we can create a supportive and nurturing environment for all mothers and their beautiful children.